Hard Sell People

Who likes telemarketers? Raise your hands out there all you lovers of people who try to sell you things you don’t need or want. Things that you have done fine without for all of your life until right now.

How about those timeshare salespeople? When I see them coming, I want to run away. Fast. Okay, so timeshares work great for a lot of people, and I may even consider one someday, but the hard sell thing drives me crazy.

There is a person I’ve known who comes to St. Croix a few times a year and has been running a business here for a number of years. We’ve had a comfortable mutually beneficial business relationship for a long time. Now she has started an internet advertising business and wants me to give her money for doing something she’s been doing for years….getting me a little business.

At first, I was pretty disappointed because we’ve had a nice easy relationship going on, but now she wants money for doing stuff that, in one breath she says she’s been doing for years, but in another that it is somehow different now. And I understand that this is the way of the world. Everybody wants more money, and I wish her luck with it. But she can really stop trying to sell it to me. I am very happy with my internet advertising, thank you very much….

She has sent us loooong e-mails about how many hits and blah blah blah as compared to the other websites and blah blah blah. And we’ve responded that we are not interested in advertising on her sites. But she keeps at it, trying to explain it in just the right way so we’ll give her money. She’s probably a very good salesperson, but that type of pushy behavior just turns me right off.

Yesterday, I responded to one of her loooong e-mails and said, basically, that all the technical stuff (which looks like blah blah blah to me), really means nothing to me, and that I am happy with the business we get from what we do and that I was disappointed that our long-time association comes down to a few bucks, now.

Then she called. She got Michael first and talked his ear off. He agreed to do some research on the numbers she gave him. Then she talked to me. And she talked and talked some more until I was forced to lie to her and tell her I had an appointment to get to. She kept saying the same stuff over and over. And, although I don’t understand all the intricacies of everything she said, I got the jist of it, but she just went on and on and on (blah blah blah). Finally I hung up. Then I went to the computer and there was another e-mail from her! I couldn’t believe it!

This time, I couldn’t stop myself. I apologized for not being into the hard-sell thing and told her how I react to annoying telemarketers and timeshare sales people. I thought that would be the end. But lo and behold, this morning there was another short (thank goodness!) e-mail refuting some of the wording in my e-mail about her “new” venture. But she promised she would stop bothering me. Well, she got the last word, and I hope it truly is.

8 Responses to “Hard Sell People”

  1. larry meyer Says:

    Check out my website…I don’t think I have your phone number, however!!

  2. Bonnie Says:

    Having been in sales most of my life, I can attest to your annoyance of that hard sell. It doesn’t work for me so, using myself as a template ( which I do a lot ), I learned the best way to get to people is with facts, humor and clever, creative methods.

    I commend your patience. I don’t have so much of it anymore.
    I hate being intruded upon and the result is that I shut down.
    Sounds like you do too.

  3. Michael Says:

    Check out my website…” We did.
    I don’t think I have your phone number, however!!” Lets try to keep it that way ;)

  4. Terry Says:

    Hey Larry, cool site! Did you create it?

    Really, Bonnie, you have a great sense of humor and I like your ideals. You could probably sell me just about anything ;) !

  5. larry meyer Says:

    Yes, before we moved down here Peggy and I had an advertising agency (Meyer Marketing) they did our website – and a commercial real estate and rental business (Meyer Commercial) and the teleservices company (Meyer Teleservices)…we sold them all to our employees and so they now run the show and send us checks down here in Paradise!! Cool, huh?

  6. larry meyer Says:

    Another thought, I am surprised you get any telemarketing calls down here….area code 340 is kind of on the “reject” list for tele-sales stuff.

  7. Terry Says:

    Right, Larry, we don’t get telemarketing calls here (let Jah be praised!). But I still remember being absolutely, incredibly, overwhelmingly appalled at the audacity of someone calling me on a Friday night at 9:00 after I’d worked my butt off all week and was relaxing in the sanctity of my little log cabin in the middle of nowhere, to try to sell me something.

    In my dictionary that would be the definition of annoying. How can people who do that for a living actually SLEEP at night?

  8. Trudi Gilliam Says:

    Hi Larry! I was not sure you were the same Larry Meyer that I knew while living on STX, but after you mentioned Peggy’s name, I knew it was you. Glad you finally made it to STX permanently. Is my wreath still hanging on the door?

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